In a time of tears, there's Nattie

This last week has been the worst week I have had since Brian came and told me about Rory. There is much more detail about that to come but I have to write down this story before I forget the details.
This last month has been enormously overwelming because of Rory's death and because of the girls health. Macie has had off and on diarhea and Natalie has been throwing up off and on for about three weeks now. She knows when it is going to happen and will often tell us so. It's really quite useful and we usually make it to the bathroom which really saves the carpet and furniture. Again, I will give more detail about that soon. Friday night she threw up again after being on some medication and shortly after,while bathing Macie, I lost it. I had one of those uncontrollable cries. Deep, sobs that make it hard to catch your breath.
I went to my room and Natalie followed me asking repeatedly, "Mama, what's wrong? What's wrong Mama?" in that kind of voice that is so sincear and sweet you could just melt. I picked her up on my bed and she lovingly held onto me like I was holding on to her. I think she even stroked my hair a few times.
She then asked me if I wanted to read a book. She did this because on the rare occasion she has difficulty separating from me when I drop her off at daycare, the older girls always grab a book and read with her because she loves that and it gets her mind off of me leaving. As she was going to get us a book and I was trying to get a grip, she reached up her special animal and said, "Mama, here! Here's Lamby. You can cuddle Lamby Mama. Here, you can take him."
She went and got us a book to read and half way through she asked again what was wrong. This is about how the conversation went...
Nattie: "Mama, what's wrong?"
Me: "Mama's heart hurts honey."
Nattie: "What did Macie do?" I think she asked what Macie did to me because when I started crying I was in the bathroom with Macie.
Me: "Macie didn't do anything. Mama is just sad honey. Mama's heart hurts and she's worried about your tummy. Do you know where your heart is?"
Nattie: "Yeah."
Me: "Where?" Natalie then pointed to her chest, then pointed to my chest. "That's right honey. That's where Mama hurts right now."
Nattie: "Oh. Do you need to puke?"
Seriously, there was nothing in this world that could have put a smile on my face faster.

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